Attachment in Adult Relationships

Just like in childhood

stressful situations in adult relationships trigger the need for an attachment figure—someone who provides comfort and security. Separation from a loved one causes distress and anxiety. Close and trusting relationships serve as a protective buffer against stress at any age.

Although attachment models formed in early childhood tend to remain stable, they are not irreversible.

Studies show that in the first two to three years, an attachment style primarily reflects a child’s relationship with their mother or father. However, if parents’ behavior and attitudes toward the child change, the attachment model can also change.

As the child grows older, their attachment patterns gradually become an integral part of their personality (Bowlby).

The Link Between Physical Aggression and Emotional Suppression

When family members struggle to express physical affection, they may replace it with physical aggression.

Physical violence often serves as a substitute for emotional closeness, as physical affection may be perceived as a sign of weakness (Virginia Satir).