Category: Depth psychology
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Memories, dreams, reflections
Among the so-called neurotics, there are many people who, had they been born earlier, would not have been neurotic that is, they would not feel an inner division. If they had lived in a time when humans were connected to nature and to the world of their ancestors through myths, when nature was a source…
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Christmas star
Did you know that the Christmas Star needs to have its tip broken off for it to grow fuller and more beautiful? I only recently learned about this. Yesterday, during a session with a couple trying to rebuild their relationship after infidelity—working through loss, struggles, and the changes that come after betrayal—it became crystal clear…
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Nigredo – The Moment When the Sun Darkens
When a client arrives at therapy, one of the most common questions is:“Why has this happened to me? Why has fate, God, or the universe been so cruel?” These are profound and meaningful questions because seeking and finding symbolic meaning in suffering allows emotional trauma to be transformed, helping a person move forward. However, this is far…
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Reflecting on Love Through Jungian Psychology: Inspired by Carmen
While watching Carmen, I found myself asking: What is love? Anyone who has ever experienced it knows that love is a complex, overwhelming, and profound emotion—one that has been explored and described throughout the centuries. In Carmen’s case, love brings destructive consequences to those who experience it, and I am not just referring to the complications of relationships. 🙂 Jungian psychology offers a unique lens through…
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From Time to Time, We Call Each Other Best Friends
Research shows that friendship is the foundation of long-term relationships. Genuine friendship forms the basis for lasting romantic relationships. In my work with couples, I have observed that partners who maintain a true friendship throughout their marriage are psychologically more resilient during conflicts and report higher overall satisfaction in their relationship. Studies also indicate that people in healthy relationships…
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“My child is a narcissist!”
Sometimes, in my work, I hear things that make me reflect, and until I put them on paper, I can’t stop thinking about them. For example: “My child is a narcissist!” To be honest, statements like this from parents concern me. Even if teenage behavior can sometimes appear selfish, this is actually part of their psychological development—their task is…
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Narcissism is not always grandiose
Reflections After a Conversation with a Client Narcissism is not always grandiose, as one might think. It can also manifest in learned helplessness, where a person readily shifts their responsibilities onto someone else—even in small matters, such as making a restaurant reservation, paying bills, cleaning the house, or cooking meals. At some point, a person may begin…
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