Tag: relationships
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A deeper look at the topic of divorce in therapy and the key questions that should be addressed
This Article Can Be Helpful for Both Clients and Colleagues A deeper look at the topic of divorce in therapy and the key questions that should be addressed. 1. Emotional Well-being Discuss with the client their emotional state and how they are coping with the divorce process. Encourage open dialogue about their feelings, struggles, and emotional needs. 2. Support System Explore…
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The Impact of Relationship Conflicts on Intimacy and Male Sexual Well-being
There are days when my work brings both deep fulfillment and immense joy, especially when I witness destructive relationship dynamics shift into something positive—when partners rediscover each other and rebuild lost intimacy, including their sexual connection. The only regret, of course, is the years lost to conflict and pain before this change happened. Most often, these are complex cases, where long-term feelings…
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“You Have Two Days to Buy Your Own Charger!” Emotional violence in couple relationship.
Emotional Abuse: “I felt helpless. I tried talking to my husband about how he also needs to take care of our child. I got angry when he refused, saying he needs to plan his time in advance and be notified exactly when and for how long he will have to watch our child. He comes…
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The Impact of Pornography on Relationships: What Research Says
Recently, this topic has been coming up more frequently in therapy sessions, particularly when couples share their relationship struggles. I decided to explore what researchers and studies say about this subject. After all, at first glance, what harm could watching pornography really cause? So many people do it. That’s why today’s topic is pornography consumption and its impact on relationships. The Digital…
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Romantic Comedies & Their Psychological Impact on Relationships
Today feels a bit more romantic than usual —flowers, dinner, sweets, and romantic comedies. Romantic comedies have long been a staple of popular culture, captivating audiences with charming and heartfelt stories of love, laughter, and happily-ever-afters. These films provide pleasant entertainment and offer a temporary escape from routine and daily life. However, they can also shape our perceptions of relationships, influencing our mental…
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The Impact of Sibling Violence on Adult Life: A Systemic Family Therapy Perspective
Continuing the complex discussion on violence in childhood, there is one aspect that often goes unnoticed, despite its frequent appearance in therapy—the impact of childhood sibling violence on adult life. Many people have never consciously reflected on it, yet it significantly shapes their psychological well-being. Sibling Violence: The Overlooked Childhood Trauma One of the most significant but frequently ignored…
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Understanding Intimate Partner Violence Through a Jungian Lens
After attending a seminar on relationship violence, I felt the need to explore this issue more deeply through the perspective of Carl Jung’s analytical psychology. Intimate partner violence is a complex issue involving multiple psychological factors. Through the Jungian lens, the dynamics of violence in relationships can be analyzed by examining: ✔ Archetypes✔ The collective unconscious✔ The process of individuation Since archetypes are universal symbols and themes…
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How to Make Bedtime Easier for Young Children?
Continuing the discussion on sleep, I often hear from parents about the challenges of putting young children to bed. That’s why I decided to share some insights, hoping they will be useful. Bedtime can be a challenging time for both parents and young children, but a calm and consistent routine can make the process much smoother. In psychotherapy sessions with parents, we discuss strategies for creating…
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How Childhood Trauma Affects Romantic Relationships
Gottman’s theory, which I consider a cornerstone of relationship psychology, sheds light on the profound impact of childhood trauma on adult romantic relationships. When partners experience difficulties in their relationship, it often means that childhood wounds and unresolved psychological complexes have been triggered. Recognizing and addressing the influence of past trauma on both individual well-being and relationships is crucial. 💡 Individuals with unresolved emotional trauma tend…
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The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in Relationships: How They Destroy Love
I wanted to explore the key factors that destroy relationships.John Gottman, one of the most influential researchers in relationship psychology, identified these destructive patterns and called them “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse”. In the world of relationships, these metaphorical “Four Horsemen” act as harbingers of relationship demise. If left unaddressed, these patterns can erode even the strongest foundations of…
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